Thursday, March 08, 2007

It's Not easy being an adult...

When we are kids the only thing we think of is where to go, what game to play next, who's birthday is around the corner, what's for tea? and stuff like that. It's days without worries and complication. As we get older, things that we know fill up our little brain, and it gets more complicated as days past. People used to say that even if you graduate from University, you only someone who graduate from your books. You still need to attend this University/school that is call the Society University/school. That's a more challenging place than any other school that you have attended. You probably won't need to burn midnight oil doing assignments and projects that are due, but you will need to learn how to put up a mask in front of certain people. when to turn on and when to turn off. when to stand neutral.

Remember asking these questions, "why do we need to go to school?" and "why are there exams?" all those things that we hate we will hope that it doesn't exist when we are young. but then some times you might think that things got better, but it's just because your parents had their wings spread out not letting anything you hate to get pass them and fall onto you.but when you get older and when you start to leave home and be independent then you realize there are alot of things that you had to face and make alot of decision that you wish your parents were there to help you decide.

There were days that you wish to hide in your room or somewhere far and quiet and meditate for a few weeks or better for a few months and don't bother what is going on outside. haha.. Those were the little thoughts that you wish you had the courage to do. But at least human still have the ability to dream and think of things that they wish they can do or they can have which in reality is the other way round. Unfortunately there are this minority that thinks dreaming is a childish thing to do. But when you grow up you had lose alot why should you lose this little thing that you can keep and not let anyone know. Your little secret and probably a little secret between really good mates.

Days will be better and more cheerful with dreams. It keeps people going. Dreams aren't just dreams, it's a medication for certain people who can't express their emotion. They can express it in their dreams. Or like someone, dreams are their goals in life, their target that they want to reach. As many says, Aim for the stars and if you fall you'll fall near. If you aim too near to the ground you might just fall back to the ground which is square one.

Hm... graduating means you are jobless. and which means you had to be fully responsible for your well-being and your parents are suppose to get pocket money from you. and not the other way round. it's a big responsibility to put upon ones shoulder before they are totally ready. That's why being an adult is nothing easy. It's something everyone got to learn. But sadly to speak, the University don't teach this class. So you are never prepare to face what is waiting for you.

2 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

Hm... graduating means you are jobless. and which means you had to be fully responsible for your well-being and your parents are suppose to get pocket money from you. and not the other way round.

U r making me more depressed..........seriously...i feel really sh*t now....

8:52 PM  
Blogger Xiaowhey said...

hey.. u'r situation is different at the time being.

9:01 PM  

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